In every job, in everything you do, there will always be someone who is rude. That is the same for blogging. I’ve recently had an unpleasant experience with a person - I will not name any names. But when you come across a situation like this, you need to try your best to handle it properly. I hope I handled it properly.
Pretty much I discovered someone who had copied one of my articles and pasted it on their blog. This person wasn’t completely wrong though - at the end of their post, they had written “Original post by Tay” with a link to me. However, my problem was that they had reposted my whole article in its entirety. It’s not like they had stolen it completely.
I posted a comment on their post (my comment never would have gotten posted, because it had to be approved first). I said something along the lines of, “I know you linked to me and gave me credit at the very end of the post, but I would appreciate if you did not have the article up in its entirety.” This does, after all, create double content for the search engines which is a bad thing. I also said that in some ways it appears as if the owner of the blog wrote the article, when really I did. I asked nicely if they could remove it or change it to only show a portion of the article, with a link back to my post so the readers could continue here.
A few hours later I received a comment (which I did not accept to show on this blog). The person told me something like this: “If you had read the whole thing and got to the end, you would have seen I had linked to you. I did not say I wrote the article!! You’re an asshole and I unsubscribed from you on my RSS feed.” Along with a couple other things.
I told them that I did not say they had taken credit, but that was how it was perceived in some ways. I also had clearly stated to them that I had KNOWN they linked to me. I appreciated that they did. However, all I asked was the article not be posted in its entirety, and that only a segment be shown instead. This would have solved all problems, and if the person had said okay, everything would have been fine and dandy. I mean, what was so hard with just agreeing? Posting a portion and linking to the rest would not have hurt a thing. But instead this person had to call me an asshole and threaten me with unsubscribing (which was a pointless threat, really).
They did remove the post. But they did not have to handle this so immaturely. They made a big deal out of nothing, and had to resort to calling me names, over absolutely nothing. I really do feel flattered that they liked my article enough to put it up on their own blog. All I asked was one little thing - that it not be posted in its entirety. And I asked nicely too. Instead I received a comment with a fake email attached to it which included the words “fat chance”, was called a mean name, and treated pretty unfairly. It was my content that I had written, so what was so wrong here?
This is NOT an attack on the person. This is actually my first experience like this, and I am just saying I knew I would have to handle something like this eventually, and I was hoping I did it right. I am trying to understand why they felt like they had to be so defensive, and if I handled the matter properly. Should I have let it slip and not asked if the article not be posted in its full entirety? Should I have been fine with the link back to my blog? Or did I do the right thing, and did they just get a little upset over nothing? When I first commented this person I asked nicely, called no names. What I said was received completely wrong on the other end. But did I deal with it correctly? Was having the article put up in its entirety a big deal or not?
Once again, I’d like to say this is not an attack. I’m not naming names. And I really DO appreciate and feel very flattered when people like my content enough to put it on their blogs. All I ask for is a link back to me (which this person DID provide), and that the post not be just copied and pasted in its entirety from my blog. I please ask that just a portion be shown with a link to my original post saying, “click here to read more”. Maybe also at the beginning of the post saying that I wrote the article, so it is not mistaken? That is not asking too much, is it?
If I’m being way too uptight about this, let me know what you think please. And I want to know if I should have said anything about the article being put up in its entirety or not. Did that matter? Also, my readers, have you ever had to deal with someone being rude and much too defensive other nothing in your blogging experiences? Thank you for reading.
UPDATE: I am rather confused. He links to all kinds of Ebay related things and also lists his RSS as one that actually isn’t his. I’m trying to figure out what he’s trying to do.
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